Alright, my blog seems to be dying, so I shall start being active in blogging again I hope (
*fingers crossed). Well, have been hearing from friends around me that they have broken up with their BF. Yup, you didn't see wrongly, you may think it's not like a big deal for me to blog about, but before I start to blog about this matter, thoughts came gushing into my mind. What is
LOVE? How does it feel to be
LOVED or to love another person? Does the so called
FOREVER LOVE really exist? Very immature questions, even I myself think it's ridiculous for me to believe in such things.
If you ask me what is
LOVE, I'll probably give you the answer:
"I DON'T KNOW". Seriously, that will be my answer, firstly, I have yet to be in a relationship before even though I'm like 20+ years old & I really wished I could be in one. Looking at humans these days, not only the guys, but oso the girls, treating relationship like drinking water, really made me wonder if they really love their BF/GF.
So how does it to feel to love another person? Does your heart pound like you're being chased by the T-Rex in Jurassic Park? Do you dream of her/him even in your dreams? Do you smile or laugh ridiculously at something which reminds you of him/her even though it isn't funny? Well, if you have all the above mentioned for at least.... Let me think......... a month, I suppose you really love the person.
Arguments, Cold-wars. Yea, these are the things that a couple would have to experience to have a better understanding of one another & to build up their relationship. But, when the couple decides the say "
Let's Break Up", do they really meant that? Will they regret? To me, if a person can just say 3 words above that easily, meant that she doesn't even care about the relationship or even me. Humans are such funny animals, when they are not yet a couple & fighting all obstacles to be one, they would tell each other how much they meant, how much they love each other. But when they are finally a couple, they fuss about even the smallest thing in the world. Even though it may be just a peanut matter, it may cause one side of the planet to say out the "Heartless Words". So does that make the love less
TRUE? Cos I always hear people saying "True Love can withstand the test of Time".
Breaking ups, going back together, well, it may be normal, but if it happens that many times, don't you guys/babes think that you all should grow up & be mature when facing relationship? Saying those words is very easy, cos you just say it & f@ck off, that's it, how hard can it be? But think back to the time when both of you are trying to be together, you all fought so hard to get this far, doesn't it hurts to just let go of one another hand?
So, I want to ask all of you, do you guys/babes really treasure your other half? If you really do, how can you guys/babes just break up because of small matters like this? Why don't you all think of saying "I'm sorry". Well, Please don't get offended by my post, it's just my thoughts, cos I have yet to be in a relationship, I may not know how it is to be in one & the ups & downs, But to me, I would never say the 3 words that
EASILY. So all of you should just
THINK hard when you wanna spit out those words & treasure your other half.
